Tuesday, May 7, 2013

#questionoftheday

Would you rather have sexy legs or a phat ass?

This question is for men and women...

Ladies, would you rather have sexy legs or a phat ass? It seems the majority of women want phat assess because that's what they see all over the Internet and Television. There was a time, not long ago, that women wanted bigger breasts, but with new technology and ass shots, the trendy thing to have is a phat ass. I see it everyday when I am on the Internet doing research or reading about the trending topics. Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook are filled with women with phat asses! 

The sad truth is that most photos I see are retouched or the girl has had ass injections. Is it that serious? I guess it's hard for me to judge because I have always had an ass, but even my 40-inch ass is looking small compared to the pictures you see on the Internet. 

                                                    

As many of you know, I dabble in fitness from time to time. I lost about 15 lbs and everyone thought I was losing my figure, but really I am more confident with my body at this size than I was with the extra weight.  I have a complex about my legs and I have always battled with cellulite.  I am now at the point where I say, "Fuck having a phat ass!" I've had a phat ass all my life and it served me well, but it's time to move on and get what I really want! Sexy Legs!!!

Guy's....would you rather have a women with sexy legs or a phat ass? I can't speak on this because clearly women like different things than men. Half the time, men don't even notice what we think are flaws. They don't notice the cellulite on the back of our legs, scars, or any other silly thing "we" as women seem to care about. Because women are taking plastic surgery to extremes lately, I wondered does it really matter to man if you have a phat ass, big boobs, or sexy legs? 


xoxo,
Melody Jai





Tuesday, April 30, 2013

#questionoftheday

Is it possible to be friends with the opposite sex without someone catching feelings or secretly liking the other person? 

Over the years I've noticed how hard it is to have a friendship with the opposite sex. I mean I've had guy friends all my life, but when I sit back and evaluate the friendship it was based off of one of us liking each other. So what do you do? I mean if you know the other person likes you and you continue the friendship are you giving them false hope? Or are you leading them on in some way? 

But what if it is you that likes your friend? How do you control that urge to tell them, or the urge to throw yourself at them? I have issues with this. I mean, when I like someone I tell them, but that isn't always the best thing because now it's awkward when you hang out. A simple hug can make them feel uncomfortable, or maybe now they think you call too much. Sitting next to each other on the couch because very intense. Maybe if I had some self control than my feelings will subside, but the more I get to know the person the more I like. It can get very confusing for me because I don't understand my emotions and feelings fully so it makes it difficult to tell if I like them because I can't have them or if it's truly me liking them. I am not one to bite my tongue and say nothing. If you leave a door open for me to take a sexual advance, I will take it. Laughing it off, but being serious at the same time. What do you do? 

xoxo,
Melody Jai

BOGO for May!!!


Exclusive Pictures are Buy One get One for the month of May!!! 

Don't miss out on Exclusive Pictures for May and June!! Come see what all the fuss is about! If you like my old pictures from Twitter and Instagram than you will LOVE these! You won't find these photo's or videos anywhere else on the net!! Every Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday I will send you an email with 1-5 all new pictures. 

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Send a paypal payment of $5.99 each week or  $19.99 a month to my email address meigs25@hotmail.com.
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I salute our troops! 


Are you an active military soldier or retired vet? I want to say "Thank You" for your services! My May Skype special is dedicated to you! For the whole month of May I am taking $25 off each show plus giving you a whole month of pictures for free!


Bronze Show $50 I choose the outfit and the music.
Silver Show $100 I choose the outfit and you choose the music.
Gold Show $150 You choose the outfit and the music plus get a signed poster!!!
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All payments can be made with paypal. My email is meigs25@hotmail.com. Once payment is received we will discuss your time slot. I will not accept you and start a show until the money is received. Make sure when you send a payment that it isn't for goods and services.  Add your Skype name and time you are available.

I also take prepaid shows. I understand that you may live in a different time zone and need a show tailored around your schedule. I am willing to be flexible just as long as it isn't a ridiculous time :-)

I also accept gift cards, but will not do a show until the card is received.

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Monday, April 29, 2013

#Questionoftheday

What do men think about having sexual experiences with women on their cycles? 


I love these Sloth Meme's...lol I found this one and it reminded me of an experience I had a few weeks ago. The story goes like this...it was that time of the month for me and yet I still allowed someone to give me oral. Now, this isn't the first time this has happened. I've had this happen a few times in the 
past, but never really talked about it because I thought it was gross. Having intercourse while on my cycle isn't a big deal because you can put a towel down and take a shower after, but oral sex?
I mean it felt good, but the idea of someone actually enjoying this was just too hard for me to understand. I mean all women go through a cycle every month, but I've always thought it was gross. Turns out some men don't find it gross at all. In fact, over the years I've heard of women, that I work with stripping, who make more money when they are on their cycle. It's like men instinctively smell it on us. 

I decided to ask a guy friend about this because I wanted to know how nasty I really was for allowing a man to do this to me while I was on my cycle. He confirmed that I was nasty, but he also said that he might consider it if it was his girl. And for the record, I allowed a man I have been dating for awhile do this to me, and not some random guy. So is it all in a woman's mind that it is gross? Do men really not care if we are on our cycle at all? 


Wednesday, April 17, 2013

New Video!!!

Hey y'all I couldn't post the whole video on Youtube because they have been tripping lately about my content. So here is the whole video. I hope you like it!!!