Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Introducing "twerking" to Rock Music

I wanted to write a post about a recent video that I was a part of. If you haven't seen the new Mastodon video "Motherload" then you are missing out, well if you like a lot of ass shaking. Shaking my ass to rock music isn't something new for me. I've been dancing to Marilyn Manson, Pantera, etc for years. You may have purchased one of my videos dancing to rock. I actually prefer rock over hip hop and R&B but most of my fans want to see me dance to mainstream rap.

Dancing for me has always allowed me to express myself through motion. I can escape into a dark place within my subconscious when I dance to certain rock songs, or slip under a love spell while listening to some great R&B. I like music that speaks to me so I can project my emotions with movement.

My adult life has been consumed with dance. I was an adult entertainer for years in strip clubs across the county, but mainly in Atlanta. The whole "twerking" phenomenon really wasn't that impressive to me because I worked with the best ass shakers in the country. Atlanta clubs are filled with big booty girl shaking their asses. When I released the "Whooty" video in 2007, I wasn't "twerking" I was just shaking my ass and dancing how I normally do at work. Little did I know that my video would break the stereotype that "white girls couldn't shake their ass". I proved that not only could I shake my ass, but I could brand myself as "Melody Jai, The Original Whooty".

I was excited when I was contacted to do the Mastodon video. I don't normally do mainstream videos where I am able to show off my dancing skills. Most of my the video work I do now is for my site I think most videos showcasing girls shaking their asses is a bit misogynistic,but that's just because most of the music you see girls shaking their asses to is filled lyrical content that degrades women. But that's not what "Motherload" is about. So I decided to do the video.

They wanted girls that could "twerk" and that was just up my alley. Although most of my scenes were cut in post production, I had a blast working on set with all the ladies. Each one of those girls had their own style of dancing. It was beautiful to see how dance could bring all of us together. We laughed and cut up with one another and truly had a great time. At no point did I ever feel uncomfortable during the shoot. It was professionally shot and artistically done. The band members were great to hang around, and made us all feel comfortable. I am glad I was a part of such a controversial video, and look forward to working on more projects like this in the future.

Tell me what you think? Did this video come across as being something that was degrading to women? Just because a women dresses scantily and expresses her sexuality through dance does not make her a sinner nor does it make her less of a person. What it makes her is a Goddess that isn't afraid to express her sexuality. If we all stopped judging each other for a second then we'd see that being sexual is part of human nature. It's how we seduce one another to procreate. Last I checked that is what animals do right?


Tuesday, July 8, 2014

My apology to Colin Kaepernick...

I am writing today to apologize to Colin Kaepernick about the article I wrote about him last March. I felt sorry for the girl that was allegedly stranded at the airport because I have had a few bad experiences with athletes in my past. I believed her story up until today. I witnessed first hand how she spreads lies about people to try and sabotage their image. When you lie about one thing then you will lie about other things and she is now discredited in my eyes as a truthful person.

Ladies this is why no one believes us when something bad really does happen. Telling the truth does hurt and suck sometimes and it may make us look like idiots, but in the end it will always save you when you need people to believe in you.

I am sure Colin won't read this, but it's only right that I apologize.

I'm sorry! I know this is a copout way to apologize but I don't know you personally to call you and tell you. I should have never written the article.

I want everyone to know that I have changed as a person. I don't promote any kind of name bashing and i won't be writing anymore articles on these type of topics because there is always three sides to every story. Your side, their side, and the truth.

Thursday, March 13, 2014

T.V. Show Casting

NOW CASTING fun, lively couples who are dating, married, or broken up!

Has a funny fetish ever resulted in a not-so-funny trip to the ER?

Has a night of magical lovemaking ever resulted in a mysterious medical condition?

Or have you ever tried taking your love to new heights, with a turbulent outcome?!

The producers of Untold Stories of the ER are now conducting a nationwide search for stories of sexual mishaps that have ended up in the hospital! To apply email and tell us all about it!

Compensation and travel accommodations to and from Hollywood, CA may be provided for selected couples!

Sunday, March 2, 2014

29 Days to Ignite Deep Grace

I want to give an honest review on a program that I completed on November 5, 2013. The reason for this review is because I am once again taking this program. Not because I didn't do it right the first time, but because it worked the first time and I believe it will continue to work time and time again. The program I am talking about is "29 Days to Ignite Deep Grace" by Lisa Michaels.

Meet Lisa Michaels! She is a very positive role model and the most influential person I have had the honor to meet and work with. I have now taken several of her courses and not one has let me down. My spiritual growth over the past year is all due in part to her and the Elemental Teaching of Nicole Christine. I encourage anyone who is on a spiritual path and want a way to expand, to visit her site and try one of her products. 

So what exactly is "29 Days to Ignite Deep Grace"? It's a creation project that teaches you about allowing your life to be filled with Grace in order to manifest an intention. The first time I did this program, I wanted to bring more money into my life. I focused all my energy and journal assignments on trying to manifest this intention.

I intentionally open to "Ignite Deep Grace" in my life. During the next 6 weeks I intend to gracefully create $12,000.

I know that figure may seem high to some of y'all, but I've got big dreams! Too bad "I plan, and God laughs" cause I didn't see much success around this intention. I didn't finish it in 29 days, it took me a few days longer. I did, however, find success in opening up more spiritually. It didn't bother me that I didn't hit my mark. It wasn't until I decided to do the program again, did I
re-look at the old intention. Once I read it, I flashed back to the outcome of the last time. I remembered that I didn't hit my mark, but I was determined to make an intention where I knew I would hit my target.

In the next 30 days, I will gracefully and easily, learn how to have, a beautiful, harmonious, satisfying relationship.

The funny thing is, after I wrote this new intention did I realize I had actually completed the last one like I intended. I needed to look at the situation in a different perspective. This is how I created $12,000 in 6 weeks.

I bought a dog: $4000 on credit
I got a new credit card: $1500 credit
I took all the money out of my 401k: $5000 cash
I got a new job: $2000 cash
I borrowed: $500 loan

That's a total of roughly $13,000 give or take. See where I went wrong was that I wasn't specific about what kind of money it would be. I wanted it to be profit, but instead it balanced out and I am not any further in debt, nor am I any less in debt.  At least now I know the program really works.

I have 100% faith that I will also complete this intention in 30 days!

Here is the link to Lisa Michaels site so you too can join her programs!

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

What I want in a Man!!!

I have been struggling lately with my issues around relationships. What is it that I am lacking? What is it that I want? I’ve been praying about this topic for a while now, and a couple of days ago I got my answer.

“As a side note; I want y’all to know that when you pray about something you have to be open to receiving the answer in many different ways”

I took part in a class on Yin and Yang. We really delved into what each one means along with their masculine and feminine counterparts. It was a two-part class that I completed weeks apart from each other. The first part was about the feminine aspects of Yin and Yang. I had no idea they both had feminine qualities. Soon after taking that class I became busy and neglected to finish the module.

Weeks passed and I became frustrated one day when I started trying to date again. I fell into a relationship that wasn’t the right one for me. I was hoping it would be, but realized fast that this person wasn’t on the same level as me and probably couldn’t be enlightened by anything I could teach him. I began to wonder again what it was that I was missing? I felt desperate and was ready to get the answer. I just didn’t know where I was going to find the answer.

“Everything happens for a reason.”

Fast forward to a couple days ago; I have more free time now that I quit my job so I decided to catch up on the classes I have neglected. I listened to the replay of the second part, Masculine Yin and Yang module. I realized during the lecture that I was lacking a lot of the characteristics of these two energies. I began to realize that most men in my life have never showed up for me in these ways. I had no guide, or teacher. That’s when it dawned on me to make a list of the things I want in a partner.

“The answer to my prayer!”

So here are my list and brief definitions of each word so I am clearer. I've also added a bonus video explaining my point of view. I would love to know what you think!

What I want in a man!!!! 

Resourceful- Having the ability to find quick and clever ways to overcome difficulties.
Staying Power- The ability to endure or last.
Patience- the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset
Steadiness- firmly placed or fixed; stable in position or equilibrium
Steadfastness- fixed in direction; steadily directed. Firm in purpose.
Abiding Presence- the presence of light, peace, joy, love, life, and substance that is ever within, about, before, and beside life.
Undergirding Supportive Base- fundamental support, secure, strength
Out-moving- moving forward
Initiating- to begin something. To cause.
Goal-targeted- Completing goals
Adventuring- engage in exciting activity
Linear- progressing from one stage to another in a single series of steps
Objective- not influenced by personal feelings or opinions in considering and representing facts
Progressive- happening or developing gradually or in stages
To the point- relevant

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Is it porn if...


Is it porn if I do an "instructional" video teaching women how to give head? Like what if I used a dildo instead of a real person? 

I am curious about this because I've had a couple guy's say that I need to teach a class. I would "LOVE" to teach women how to pleasure their partners better! There are so many different methods of pleasuring a man! 

What do y'all think?

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Pizza Omelet

I wanted to share this delicious recipe that I got from a really good friend of mine, Holly Paige. I made it last night and it was simple and quick!

Pizza Omelet

(3) Eggs
Diced White Onion
Sun Dried Tomatoes
Feta Cheese
Italian 5 Cheese Blend
Jalapeños (if you want a little kick)

When cooking eggs, use medium-low heat. Heat the pan with a little Olive Oil. Sauté the diced onions. Lightly whip the eggs. Poor eggs into the pan over the onions, add all ingredients minus the cheese. Save the cheese for last so it doesn't burn. Flip the eggs. Add cheese. Fold the eggs once they are cooked. Grab a fork and dig in! Delicious!!!

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