Tuesday, March 17, 2015

My journey continues

I want to first "Thank" everyone for all the feedback on my adventure. I can assure you that if I think for one second that this company is bad or unethical, then I will let everyone know. It is my intention to provide everyone with correct information on all subjects that I talk about. If you have been following me for awhile, then you already know I will admit when I have made a mistake.

Now for an update on what has been going on. My team has now grown to over 45 people! I have personally signed up 3 people and I am on my way to bigger and better things. I only work this part of my business about 4-5 hours a week. I watch training videos every night, read or listen to self improvement books everyday, go to all the training events, and make at least 5 exposures a week. I am taking my time because I want to do this the right way. I want to learn as much as I can about this company before I go at it full speed. After watching Johnny Wimbrey, an international motivational speaker, live a couple of weeks ago, I realized that I want to also pursue the same thing.


I have been told most of my life that I have a presence about myself. Not just because I use to dance, but just my demeanor. I am confident, a great story teller, and I am great at communicating! These are all great characteristics to have when you go into the public speaking circuit. I however want to do it within the company so I can teach people not only the business, but how to work on themselves. I believe once I finish life coaching classes I will be able to talk to just about anyone. It really has taken me awhile to accept that I am born to be a spiritual leader.

In the meantime, I still have to make money to pay down my debt. I have a goal of being debt free in two years! I will continue to adding more content to my site, and developing myself in the entertainment world. One thing that has come up is how I look. I am "All Natural" and honestly can't compete with the other girls out there. Most of them have had some type of plastic surgery. A lot of people tell me I shouldn't go that route, but how can I not if that is what is selling? I mean Kim K has over 30 million followers on Twitter. What does that tell you?

So in the next year you may see some slight changes with me. The things I am wanting to get enhanced are my teeth, boobs, and lips. I would love if they could help me fix my legs too but I think I have found what has been causing me to not be able to gain definition in my hamstrings. Because I worked in heels for over 10 years, I am front dominate. I have to now concentrate on exercises that will strengthen my core and back. Luckily I have access to a trainer that just happens to be one of my good friends. She is now accepting new clients in the Atlanta area so if you are in need of an amazing trainer, hit me up and I will get you her information.

Now back to my site, MelodyJai.com! I am launching more provocative videos in the coming months. All my "Nude" videos are "Limited Edition" and only 100 copies are being sold. The last video "Bust it Wide Open" was sold out in under a week!! The new one is coming out on Friday and the Pre Sale for the XXX version will be available for two days ONLY!! You'll get 20% off and the video before anyone else does. This start on the 23rd and ends at midnight on the 24th. You don't want to miss this. Once they are gone, they are gone. I am still doing the Exclusive Instagram page where you get to see all the pics that are too naughty for regular Instagram. At $19.99 a month you get to enjoy over 100 pictures and clips!!

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Do you have suggestions for videos or pictures? I love getting feedback and welcome it. Email me at whootygirlmelody@gmail.com

Thanks again for all the love...

Sunday, February 15, 2015

My prayers were answered...

Continued from earlier post....

I wrote about doing a tour this year in my last post, and I believe I have found a way to do that.

At a live priestess event with my mentor, Lisa Michaels, she mentioned that she had found a way to live a life of Fun, Freedom, and Fulfillment. She said if we wanted to hear more to stick around for a brief introduction. I had extra time after the event so I decided to stick around to hear what she had to say. We watched a brief video and listened to another priestess talk about this company and how it changed her life. It all sounded wonderful, but it also sounded too good to be true.

Now we all know that if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is, right? Well, that's why I take it to my sister, Worse Case Scenario Girl. She will find a flaw in anything!  I took it straight to her to see if I should join, or better yet, if we should join. I pulled up the website and was confused. There were several videos to choose from and I couldn't remember the one my mentor told me to watch, but have no fear Worse Case Scenario Girl made us watch all of them. lol

First Flaw
We don't socialize like most people. We wouldn't know who to share it with. 

Second Flaw
We don't like other people and wouldn't like to travel with a bunch of people we don't know. 

Third Flaw
We aren't very good at sales.

She was right. We don't have a lot of close friends and family to share this with. See I went through a huge growth within myself and I learned how to love myself. Needless to say the majority of friends and almost ALL my family stopped talking to me. Plus the majority of close friends and family see me as a fuck up. Why would they ever listen to me?

Then there's the "not liking" people thing. I have had to work hard on my people skills over the past couple of years. I didn't like people. I worked in the strip club industry for all of my adult hood, and frankly, the people that came through there really weren't the best people to be around; pimps, hustlers, hoes, credit card fraud kids, murderers, rapist etc. They came through every establishment I ever worked. I distrusted everyone. Not just men, but women too. It wasn't until I got out of the club and started the path of healing that I finally started to trust and like people again.


You can read all about my past life experiences in some of my earlier blog postings. These will remain up for the duration of my life. I have a story that may connect with someone and I want to share all the ups and downs. 


The third flaw I didn't agree with at all. I am good at sales. Hell, I had to sell dances at the club. Now I have a successful website where I sell videos of myself dancing. I know how to market to people and  engage in social media to sell my products. I don't think this is an issue with me at all, but at this point she had already talked me out of joining. 


Lisa followed back up with me, and I told her that I just didn't know. I told her about what my sister had said and how she was right about a couple of the flaws. She told me to ask my higher self if it was right for me. I decided to pray on it. I asked the universe if this was a good idea, and if it would be a good choice to make. 


A month past and I kept thinking I might be missing out on something big. I started brainstorming ways I could utilize this product in my life.  I could travel to sacred sites with my fellow priestesses during sacred timings of the year. I could go on vacations around the world that I had always wanted to go on. I could also take a trip to help build schools in a foreign country. I just needed to know a little bit more.

A couple of weeks went by and I got a reminder from Lisa that she would be in town for a Regional Training Meeting. I tagged along with Scott, her husband, and Lisa Foster, another priestess, for the day, just to see what it was all about. I wasn't expecting to be gone all day. I thought it was going to be a quick meeting, but it turned out to be an all day event. I had a great time learning about the company and also spending time with others who were already in the company and living the dream.  


I remember the speaker, Dave Watson. He was so energetic and knowledgable about business. I wish I had written down more notes on this guy and all that he was telling us. I even learned something new about my own business. All in all, it was a great $50 investment to be taught be a leader in the company. After I left that meeting, I knew I was all in. 

I joined the following week and I am moving forward full speed ahead!!!

Of course, you've figured out that I am talking about some kind of discount travel. Well, I am going to take you on a journey with me. I want you to see how this company is not only transforming my life, but is also transforming the lives of others around me. If you want to know more...keep reading. 


The best is yet to come!!! 


Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Videos from 2014

Videos I worked on in 2014...now keep in mind. I am not a video vixen. Two of these projects I did for friends. I like fun videos!!! Not ones that make me feel like a piece of meat.



Mastodon
"Motherload"



Duck Down and Buckshot
"Get Muddy"

Robyn Fly
"Fuck Yo Couch"



Robyn Fly
"Fuck Yo Couch"



Saturday, January 31, 2015

My New Adventure...

It feels good to be back...

I've been so busy lately that I had to stop paying attention to my blog. Not anymore! I am embarking on another adventure in life and I want y'all to be there too!

First off I want to start with where I am. Most of you who follow me know that last year I was dead set on moving to L.A. to start my acting career. And most of you know that I was driving across the country, but I turned back around to help my dad with a medical issue. The V.A. didn't want to do surgery on my father. All they did was give him pain meds and send him on his way. His shoulder kept getting worse and he couldn't work anymore. They still wouldn't help. This is why I came back to help.

Update on my dad. After sending emails to Senators and Congressmen and getting little help from them, I took my dad to a Dr. in Atlanta. Resurgens Orthopedic Doctors helped my dad by finding him a grant to pay for his surgery. WHAT?!?!?! Yup. My dad doesn't have insurance and the V.A. wouldn't help him so he had no other alternative. He was going to have to sell off some of his land in order to pay cash for his surgery, but by putting positive vibes out there, we were able to manifest something even greater then we could have imagined. I just want to say "Thank You" to Resurgens Orthopedic in Atlanta for helping my father.

It wasn't easy staying here while I helped my dad with appointments. It wasn't that he went to so many or that it was hard work helping him. What sucked was that I had gotten rid of almost all my possessions and was now living out of boxes. I was displaced. I had no home. I shifted from different couches, and finally ended up staying with two amazing people, Candy and Ashley. So kind to let me stay with them on such short notice, and to allow me to bring Chunky Monkey. (For those who don't know, Chunky Monkey is my frenchie. My baby boy.) We agreed for me to stay till the end of their lease in November.

So for almost 5 months I lived in a four bedroom apartment with two other housemates. All of my possessions crammed in one room with spillover into a spare bedroom. Needless to say, I was uncomfortable. I was halfway living out of boxes. It became an issue for me because I am an air sign and I like my space. My own space, but where?

The days went by fast and before I knew it, it was time to make a decision. Would I continue going out West? Move back to Atlanta? Or stay in the area? I chose to stay because I had become fond of downtown Chattanooga. Many times during the summer I had wondered downtown and meditated on the bank of the Tennessee River, or threw discus in the park. It was my happy place in an unsure situation. That's why I chose Chattanooga.

I am intentionally leaving out my personal life because that is a whole other chapter, but I will address it one day. Now is not a good time because I am going through a breakup, but not a normal breakup. I lost a friend, spiritual guide, and lover. What I thought was my soulmate. Another time tho....

I am the happiest I have ever been! So many new memories are being made in this beautiful city. I get to start over where no one knows me. I mean, who is Melody Jai in Chattanooga? I've only been recognized once since I have been here. That feels good. No one can prejudge me. No one knows my past unless I let them in my inner circle and tell them what I do. Problem is...it's still hard to hold my head up high and say I have an adult website. Almost like I am ashamed of what I still do. It's not that I am ashamed, it's just that people here are FINALLY seeing me for who I am. But you know what, as I write this. That is just silly to think like that. I don't have to hide who I am from anyone. So what if I sell videos of myself dancing online. I proved everyone wrong by doing just that. #IDONTTWERKFORFREE hahaha!

For the past few months I have been doing a lot of inner reflection. I meditate more and more each week. I practice Yoga between 3-5 times a week, and I journal. In a lot of my meditations, I have seen visions of the future. Visions that I believe 100% to be true. Call it hokey or whatever, but I know who I am and what I want for myself. I believe my higher purpose is to plant seeds in the minds of a generation of people. I want to get people back in touch with their inner selves, and connect them back to Mother Earth and the celestial bodies.

But how can I change the world if I am just sitting behind my computer. I knew that I had to get out and travel. I decided to do a Melody Jai World Tour. I put feelers out on Facebook to see what cities would want to see me. I was going to choose the cities by the number of fans there. Tons of different locations came up in the comments but none more than the other. How was I ever going to decide which cities to go to, and how was I going to pay for all that travel?

To Be Continued....



Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Introducing "twerking" to Rock Music

I wanted to write a post about a recent video that I was a part of. If you haven't seen the new Mastodon video "Motherload" then you are missing out, well if you like a lot of ass shaking. Shaking my ass to rock music isn't something new for me. I've been dancing to Marilyn Manson, Pantera, etc for years. You may have purchased one of my videos dancing to rock. I actually prefer rock over hip hop and R&B but most of my fans want to see me dance to mainstream rap.

Dancing for me has always allowed me to express myself through motion. I can escape into a dark place within my subconscious when I dance to certain rock songs, or slip under a love spell while listening to some great R&B. I like music that speaks to me so I can project my emotions with movement.

My adult life has been consumed with dance. I was an adult entertainer for years in strip clubs across the county, but mainly in Atlanta. The whole "twerking" phenomenon really wasn't that impressive to me because I worked with the best ass shakers in the country. Atlanta clubs are filled with big booty girl shaking their asses. When I released the "Whooty" video in 2007, I wasn't "twerking" I was just shaking my ass and dancing how I normally do at work. Little did I know that my video would break the stereotype that "white girls couldn't shake their ass". I proved that not only could I shake my ass, but I could brand myself as "Melody Jai, The Original Whooty".

I was excited when I was contacted to do the Mastodon video. I don't normally do mainstream videos where I am able to show off my dancing skills. Most of my the video work I do now is for my site MelodyJai.com I think most videos showcasing girls shaking their asses is a bit misogynistic,but that's just because most of the music you see girls shaking their asses to is filled lyrical content that degrades women. But that's not what "Motherload" is about. So I decided to do the video.

They wanted girls that could "twerk" and that was just up my alley. Although most of my scenes were cut in post production, I had a blast working on set with all the ladies. Each one of those girls had their own style of dancing. It was beautiful to see how dance could bring all of us together. We laughed and cut up with one another and truly had a great time. At no point did I ever feel uncomfortable during the shoot. It was professionally shot and artistically done. The band members were great to hang around, and made us all feel comfortable. I am glad I was a part of such a controversial video, and look forward to working on more projects like this in the future.

Tell me what you think? Did this video come across as being something that was degrading to women? Just because a women dresses scantily and expresses her sexuality through dance does not make her a sinner nor does it make her less of a person. What it makes her is a Goddess that isn't afraid to express her sexuality. If we all stopped judging each other for a second then we'd see that being sexual is part of human nature. It's how we seduce one another to procreate. Last I checked that is what animals do right?

Official Video



  










Tuesday, July 8, 2014

My apology to Colin Kaepernick...

I am writing today to apologize to Colin Kaepernick about the article I wrote about him last March. I felt sorry for the girl that was allegedly stranded at the airport because I have had a few bad experiences with athletes in my past. I believed her story up until today. I witnessed first hand how she spreads lies about people to try and sabotage their image. When you lie about one thing then you will lie about other things and she is now discredited in my eyes as a truthful person.

Ladies this is why no one believes us when something bad really does happen. Telling the truth does hurt and suck sometimes and it may make us look like idiots, but in the end it will always save you when you need people to believe in you.

I am sure Colin won't read this, but it's only right that I apologize.

I'm sorry! I know this is a copout way to apologize but I don't know you personally to call you and tell you. I should have never written the article.

I want everyone to know that I have changed as a person. I don't promote any kind of name bashing and i won't be writing anymore articles on these type of topics because there is always three sides to every story. Your side, their side, and the truth.




Thursday, March 13, 2014

T.V. Show Casting

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